The overly jealous:
I know jealousy is an emotion that is brought about by deep emotion and a lot of the ladies pray they get a jealous guy. I'm sorry to be the one to burst your bubble, but sista you don't need an overly jealous guy. These types of guys will drive anyone crazy with their demands and suspicions. They will always want to have a say on who you talk to, smile at, greet and even respond to. They dictate what you wear and how you wear them. Left alone they will
select your friends. If your hand touch the one wen worst, fear nor go let you talk to any guy, talk less of smile at one. Every call or message you send or receive would be scrutinised, every action critically analysed and he will still arrive at the same conclusion. These type of boys end up being beaters and possibly killers of their partners. If he dey drink or do drugs then they are normally out of control and your own don finish. The liars:
This group of guys are terrible partners and could drive one to suicide. They lie about everything, even when they don't have to. To cope with this set of guys is almost impossible because they would even go as far as lying on you. Relationships is all about trust and liars can not be trusted. Hiring a detective, or becoming one yourself just to figure out the truth in your partner is not healthy. You have to be selective when he speaks to determine the truth in his words. Even if he is telling the truth you can't be sure because he is full of lies. Their irrelevant lies are the worst and trust me it's not a flaw that you can put up with.
The beaters:
This group will turn you into a punching bag just to show his strength. When he is with other men he is the weaker of the pack. You don't have to do anything major to earn a beating. Whenever he is angry and needs to feel good about himself he returns home and beats his woman. Most times the assaults might be considered minimal, like a slap, rough grab of the wrists or hair, rough shove or even a harsh smack on any part of the body. These minimal assault gradually turns into full time assaults with punches, series of slaps, kicks and even whipping. Entering into a relationship with woman beater is considered as a mistake but staying in a relationship where you get beaten doesn't make you a victim, it makes you a volunteer. So if you don't want to end up disfigured or dead give this set of boys a wide berth.
The widowers:
I know most men in this category of men are okay to be with but if they had loved their late wives before her death then expect to always be compared to her. Being compared to a memory is the worst thing that you could do because every one believes memories are perfect. He is always all about how his late wife did this or did that, how she helped him do this and that and how they were happy. He will always be in mourning of her and you will always be the lesser one.
The unambitious:
This group of guys don't have any tangible future aspirations. They are comfortable with their current position in life even if it's not a good place. They are content with watching others progress, so that they can celebrate with them. They see aspiration as an unrealistic dream. They refuse to plan with their partners and are only bothered about what they would eat and drink at the moment.
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