I know what most people are going to say about this post. They will go on to say it's the job of a guy to ask a gal out, that it would be embarrassing, that it cheapens you, makes you look desperate and other crap. Forget all those shallow thinkers and focus on what you want to achieve.
As Bosseths we should be able to go after what we want with a little boost of confidence. I'm not saying its going to be a walk in the park but trust me it's one experience you would appreciate. Besides these days things have changed, mindsets have evolved and a girl asking a guy out is not unheard off. So ignore those that will make you feel bad or stupid.
So picture this scenario:
You are just chillaxing or doing whatever you are doing and this fine guy catches your eyes and tickles your fancy. You know that there is an attraction you would like to explore. My sista get up and stand with your back straight. Sufa you took my advice and you're presentable oooo. Walk up to him and exchange a greeting. Don't twirl your hair around your fingers it makes you look like a dumb blond, lol. Anyway as much as you want him to notice you don't appear too desperate, please show some class for you are a Bosseth oh.
It's an impromptu meeting so please avoid long discussion as that is not the best time to get to know each other. After exchanging greeting and a soft handshake, come out straight and tell him you are interested in getting to know him. Don't go and be speaking big English like most of these guys ooo (maybe I should give them lessons. Lol) just try and be yourself be calm.
You could say "hello handsome, you just got yourself a very interested admirer. Would it be out of place if I get your number so we hang out later?" or you could behave shyly (it has a 90% success rate) "hi sugar! I don't normally do this but I would like a lil of your time to talk in a comfortable environment. Would it be a bother to have your number so we can communicate a convenient time?" (hahahhahahaha, I know I'm good don't mention).
Anyway it's always good to get a read on the situation. Make sure he is not there with a lady, he doesn't have on a wedding band or an indention of one, get a read on his body language so you don't end up getting into a situation with a crazy person lol.
You don't need a degree to ask a guy out. Besides whats the worst that can happen; he either turns you down (and if he is matured and sensible he will do it politely) or he accepts you. Anyway his response goes, leave his presence with your confidence intact. Bad as e bad if he shoots u down the next guy that would ask you out will have it tougher lol.
So all those guys you are busy crushing on, liking secreting, forming bestie with and you know you are interested in. My sista shoot your shot before another sharp gal overtake you.
Lest I forget please don't forget to smile and appear friendly. Because these days guys are wary, they are scared of being setup especially those cheating.
Bossethehi
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